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Hari Sharanam. Today we shall reflect upon three subjects that appear different on the surface, but are in truth three facets of a single reality — human qualities and flaws, love and compassion, and humility. If one grasps all three, one can recognise both Rama and Ravana within oneself.
In the Bhagavad Gita, Bhagavan Sri Krishna has given a profound analysis of human nature. In the sixteenth chapter in particular, the Lord classifies human qualities into two categories: Daivi Sampada (divine qualities) and Asuri Sampada (demoniac qualities). It is essential to understand that both divine and demoniac qualities exist within the same human being.
Both types of qualities are bestowed by Prakriti (nature). The Lord does not say that any person is entirely a god or entirely a demon by birth. A human being is assessed on the basis of predominance. The person who suppresses their demoniac tendencies and allows divine qualities to flourish becomes one of divine disposition. And the one who suppresses their divine qualities and lets demoniac tendencies prevail is said to be of demoniac disposition.
The Lord gives a clear enumeration of divine qualities in the first three verses of the sixteenth chapter (Bhagavad Gita 16.1–3):
Abhayam sattva-samshuddhir jnana-yoga-vyavasthitih | Danam damash cha yajnash cha svadhyayas tapa arjavam || 16.1 || Ahimsa satyam akrodhas tyagah shantir apaishunam | Daya bhuteshv aloluptvam mardavam hrir achapalam || 16.2 || Tejah kshama dhritih shaucham adroho natimanita | Bhavanti sampadam daivim abhijatasya Bharata || 16.3 ||
Note carefully — abhaya (fearlessness), ahimsa (non-violence), daya (compassion), kshama (forgiveness), natimanita (absence of excessive self-regard) — these are not mere words; they are the hallmarks of an elevated human consciousness. The Lord calls them Daivi Sampada, but in ordinary language you may call them virtues.
The Lord does not merely offer a philosophical classification; He also describes the practical qualities of a devotee. See the qualities of devotees in Bhagavad Gita 12.13–19:
The Lord says: Adveshtaa sarva-bhutanam maitrah karuna eva cha | Nirmamo nirahankarah sama-duhkha-sukhah kshami ||
Note — "karuna eva cha" — the Lord places compassion foremost among the qualities of a devotee. The implication is clear: devotion that lacks compassion is still incomplete.
Also see the qualities of the wise in Bhagavad Gita 13.8–11: Amanitvam adambhitvam ahimsa kshantir arjavam… Here the Lord says: amanitvam — the absence of egoism — is the very first means to knowledge. Only one who is free of ego can be truly humble and compassionate.
Now let us turn to the Sri Ramcharitmanas. Goswami Tulsidas Ji encapsulates the supreme human virtue in a single line — Ramcharitmanas, Uttarakanda: Parahit saris dharam nahi bhai | Parpida sam nahi adhamai ||
Meaning: There is no dharma like serving others, and no adharma like causing pain to others. Without compassion, the very thought of serving others cannot arise. These are the same divine qualities that elevate a human being to the stature of a saint.
The view of the scriptures is very clear — humility is born from the absence of ego. The Lord Himself declares: Nirmamo nirahankarah … sa me priyah (Gita 12:13) — the one who is free of ego is dear to the Lord.
“And further, in Gita 12.15: Yasman nodvijate loko lokan nodvijate cha yah | Harsha-amarsha-bhayodvegair mukto yah sa cha me priyah ||”
The one who neither agitates anyone nor is agitated by anyone — that is the truly human being. Only a humble person can be thus.
Virtues make a person into Rama, and an excess of vices makes one into Ravana. The Gita and the Manas teach us this: compassion without devotion is incomplete; humility without knowledge is hollow; and power without virtue is destructive. Therefore — the supreme dharma of a human being is to awaken the divine qualities within. Hari Sharanam.